Words Have Power

How much of us remember these words growing up – Stick and Stone may break our Bone, but Words can’t hurt us.

Well, I’m here to set the record straight and let you know words can hurt you even your own. Words can cut deep, it can also affect others and your outcome in life, even how you view yourself and others.

Remember words are powerful as any weapon it can cut like a knife 🔪, and sting like a bee. People use it as a tool to hold people back or even bring destruction in someone’s life.

We need to be mindful with the words we use towards our kids, partners, loved ones and even strangers.

Whatever we speak out in the universe is what manifests and also receives, we need to use powerful motivational and influential words when it comes to our life, future, career, families and even our kids.

If you speak negative words then you are opening the doors for negativity. You talk bad about yourself or someone else’s, then bad things will follow. If you speak fruitful words, then fruits 🍓 will manifest.

Do you ever realize when all these successful people tell their stories they start by saying I envision my life at an early age and I had a vision and I put a plan in action to make it a reality.

We sometimes don’t realise that we tend to use our own words and put curse on our own self.

I realize what I want out of life and how I wanted my life to be, then I speak it in existence? I wake up every day telling myself everything will come together and fit in place. They never give up when times were hard, they keep pushing themselves and keep remaining themselves, that this will manifest. We have a little hiccup but those are minor things, nothing will stop me from accomplishing my dream. They never speak negatively about their dream or let people negativity stop what they want. They always speak positive words and stop hanging around people who speak badly about their dreams.

We need to stop thinking about negative notions, stop talking negatively about ourself and break and speak positive words every day.

As parent we need to stop name calling our kids, we need to speak positive words even when we are mad. I know a lot of us are guilty of this even myself when we call our kids bad words- like dumpass, stupid, jackass, ignorant, slow, uneducated, not going anywhere in life, waste of time, you are just like your idiot dad and etc. We are branding our kids at an early age to think down of themselves, they will then start to believe they are that person and when things don’t work out they will always reflect back on the bad things his or her parents, friend and families told them and start believing they were right.

Stop ✋ think and regroup before you utter any words to anyone think how will my words affect his or her life. Remember Speak volume and Words Have Power.

Life Lesson- Achievement

It’s not what we have that make us Achievers.

Getting the chance to wake up each day that’s a blessing, being able to turn a lock and key, having somewhere warm to lay your head, food to eat that’s a blessing and an achievement. Remember not because you don’t own a house, a car and you haven’t achieved your goal doesn’t make you a non- achiever. Your biggest accomplishment is the ability to keep going after your dream with the intention of one day you will succeed and not giving up along the way.

Cuffing Season- When Is It

Winter should be the time you start shopping or even considering your cute winter outfits, winter boots are even looking for your favorite warm drink or desert but instead, this is the time lots of folks shopping for Cuffing partners to get through the buzzard season.

How much of you are guilty of this? Shopping or considering a winter buddy or cuddling partner to get you through the cold ❄️ dreadful winter?

Cuffing seasons normally start around October to March, which is why I thought this is the best time to write this article.

When cuffing season starts people start to rethink been single and start thinking about what they want from there cuffing partners and what they are looking for to get them through the winter holiday season. These people 👫 will have lots of rules and contract to what they expect from their winter partners, they are not looking for anything long term or any commitment.

There are even resources and apps out there that give you information on cuffing season, and even provide you with lists of questions to ask and what to expect.

Lots of people don’t want to go through the winter and holiday season alone. So they will look for someone they can cuddle up with, spend time and do things with to get them through the holiday. These things as becoming very big for single folks, they will go to the extreme and even make it a mission to find someone as soon as possible before the cold days come up against us.

Cuffing normally lasts through the winter season and as soon as the weather becomes warmer they will break it off and go back to being single again.

So if you are single and don’t want to spend that dreadful cold night and days alone maybe you should consider looking into Cuffing who knows you might find someone to get you the winter season and those dreadful holiday party and events.

Whatever you all decide have fun and stay warm.

Are Churches the New Money Maker

Before I get into my Blog I first want to say my intention is not to put no one on blast nor I’m I here to put Churches on the chopping block, I am just here to express some concerns and shed some light on what going on around us.,

Church to me growing up was a place of worship, a place you go to feel closer to God, a place where you bring your troubles and leave feeling better. The church doesn’t uphold any ungodliness like gambling, drinking or any profanity words or music.

The church was supposed to be a place you can go to get rid of your sins and feel at home with no judgment and where you should be able to ‘come as you are ‘as per the Bible but at the same time, you have to be mindful.

I realize over the years this philosophy as change and the rules have been thrown out by lots of churches. Some peachers are just teaching God’s words for money and not for the true intention.

Some of these churches don’t feel like home anymore its all about money making or what they can gain from the congregation.

Back in the day’s churches use to give back to their community, they use to give food to poor, help a family in need, support kids that are in school to further their education, they use to pour the money they collect back into helping less fortunate or even homeless youth or families but you hardly see that anymore.

They collect money but you don’t see where it going. Seeing this at times may change your outlook and how you feel about church.

I think the church should provide their congregation with a monthly financial and overview of what they are doing with the money how it’s been spent and where the money going. It should be public record for anyone to access.

If you look at some of these pastors they are balling like a celebrity wearing expensive suits and shoes to church, I’m not saying you can’t look good or wear expensive clothing but make sure you can show the receipt. You can’t be balling and your congregation is struggling to make their ties. Pastors have to set an example and not make their congregation feel comfortable and don’t think anything.

How can the church be preaching on people living unGodly lifestyle partying, smoking and listening to unGodly music on Sunday, but will rent their hall out to these people to host their event right there in your church hall? because they can make a few bucks. What kind of example or you setting for our younger


I am really saddened by the way things are going around some of the churches and all the bad stuff that are taken places inside the church, it’s like no one safe at these places.

I applaud the ones that upkeep their culture and follow the scripture and upkeep the culture. keep doing the right thing.

I will close by saying just be more mindful when it comes to picking a place of worship, please do your research and even background check on the pastor, see what the church about and what they stand for, even see how they spend the money and if they can account for every penny.

Have a blessed day my fellow peeps😊😊

Social Media

I see a lot of articles and video floating around that social media is now the new outlet for people to cheat.

What do you think about this? Do you think this is true? Is social media opening doors to cheating? Is it true that people turn to the social outlet when they are having a problem in their relationship or looking for a little attention or fun?

I see a lot of people including celebrities have been caught sliding in a woman or even man DM striking up a conversation.

I believe ever since social media become popular, people seem to overshare information that backs in the days they would keep private with the world, but they will also get upset when people comments or share their opinion.

People seem to overshare like what they eating, where they’re at, even new relationship, an argument between each other and etc.

I find a lot of people do use social media outlet as a dating tool to pick up people. A lot of people seem to be more brave and confident when it comes to picking up each other. People believe they can know a lot about a person by their posts, pics and what seems to interest them.

A lot of people make a fake profile to cheat on each other that way they won’t get caught or they can use when they want attention. Some use social media to fill the void they are missing in your life or relationship.

Social media can open doors for a lot of things from bullying, stocking, crime and etc but I believe the biggest door is cheating because you can cheat as easily as right from the comfort of your home or even by sitting beside your lover. You just have to be very wise at what you do online and think before you post and who you entertain.

Do you think is right, what’s your thoughts my lovely 🤔🤔