Keep It Simple
Life is like a stock. One minute you are up, then the other; you are down. It’s up to you to take the risk and ride it out or cash out and move on. Whatever you choose, remember nothing comes easy. We have to put in the work, go through the up and down to success on this thing called life.
My scars tell my story, my cry tells my pain, my journey tells you my struggle, but my life shows my outcome that throughout it all, I never gave up. Life is what you make it; either you fold are keep fighting, the choice is yours.
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Walk to the riddim of your gun, don’t let others force you to go faster or at a different pace. You are you, and only you know what works for you, not someone else.
Unapologetic- One of the reasons I stand behind unapologetic as my brand is because we need to stop apologizing for who we are and who we are trying to become. Not everyone will understand you, and that’s fine; some might judge you and even criticize you behind your back, and that’s ok too.
When I post this picture of me in lingerie,
You might see sexually or me or anyone who posts sexy lingerie pic of themselves as we are looking for attention; yes, sometimes that could be the case. Still, I post this pic because I love my body; I am happy with the way I look after giving birth to two amazing kids. I want to show women out there who struggle with body image, body shaming, and self-esteem issues that you don’t need to be afraid and ashame of this beautiful temple God has given you. Feel good about your body, learn to love yourself just the way you are because if you genuinely love yourself, you are opening up everyone’s mind to love you for who you are. You are beautiful whether you are large, medium, or small; even if you have stretch marks, little marks, or no marks, you are fabulous honey in every way. Always remember there is someone out there who will genuinely madly honestly love and accept you for you. You don’t need cosmetic to fix you; work on you the natural way, boo💕💞
Everywhere you turn these days whether it’s on the internet, social media, magazine, or everyone hashtagging, someone, as their relationship goal.
My father always has a saying not because the water look still doesn’t mean it’s not trouble, he was trying to say it’s not everything that looks good on the outside look good on the inside. Not everything on the surface is always what it seems. Everyone is picking from celebrities to friends and even stranger as their relationship goal but tend to forget people are not showing you everything that goes on in their relationship from the good, the bad, and the ugly only the glitter and gold.
No relationship is perfect, every relationship has its problem just like a car and you have to put the work in progress to fix it. So when you are picking someone to look up to pick someone who shows you their relationship flaws from the good time to bad and how they work to fix it, not someone who hide the open wombs with a bandage and pretend like an actor to the world until they can’t anymore and you become dumbfounded when they announced they are breaking up or having a divorce.
Be your own person, stop setting your Goals base on others. What might work for that person might not work for you? I see a lot of people posting relationship-goals, fitness goals, motivational-goals and etc, how about your own damn goal. Stop looking and living through someone else Goals, set your own.
Sometimes the person who you’re looking up to as relationship-goals, fitness, goals whatever it may be, is not showing you the skeleton in the closet just the pretty stuff on the surface, and deep down inside they are miserable or in hell.
You want someone to drive you how about your self. You can set your own goal just like that person you are admiring. Look for inspiration from other not Goals. Goals are ideas envision and commit by someone to be an accomplishment.
They take the time to put in the work to bring forth, you don’t know how must work they put into this Goal, you don’t know how much sleepless night or tears were shed to accomplish this. You want a Goal how about first setting your Goals and bring forth to existence.